Ha ha ha.
It is a whispered taboo in Nigerian culture for a woman to propose marriage to the man of her dreams. Usually when I ask people where the taboo-idea originated from, no one has an answer. They will just say “No, it is wrong” and when you insist on “why”, thats the end of the whole story.
Sometime ago, I asked: Husband or Wife, who weds who in a wedding ceremony.
Question: Why can’t a woman propose marriage to the man of her dreams in the Nigerian culture?